1 Corinthians 13:6 [Love] does not rejoice at wrongdoing
True love, let’s face it, is hard to live out. Never being rude, always being kind, this can be wearisome, but it’s still what love really is. Love also never takes pleasure in unrighteousness or injustice. Love never complains when someone benefits from truth and what is right, even when that person is an enemy. Because love rejoices with the truth, sometimes that means being happy for someone that you don’t think deserves for anything to go well in their life.
Put yourself in this scenario. Think about a time that someone reaped a consequence of their own actions and you delighted in knowing that they got what was coming to them. You can admit to doing it, all of us have at some point. You, whether you knew it or not, were condoning the wrongdoing because you praised the results. That’s not love.
Love, instead, would mourn that the person had made an unwise choice and saw things play out badly. Love would seek to bring the person to righteousness through truth. Then, when truth spoke into that person’s life, someone who loves them would be glad for them. Jonah didn’t get this one right. When he preached to the people of Ninevah, they repented and turned to God (Jonah 3:10-4:1). If he loved them, Jonah would have praised the Lord that these people had been saved from destruction. But instead he grumbled because he didn’t want the Ninevites to avoid God’s wrath. He would have rather they fall because of all their past sins. He didn’t know how to delight in truth.