Philippians 2:3 Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.
When we’re prideful we can’t see past ourselves to meet the needs of others. We view ourselves as the highest priority and we care very little what God wants of us or what others might be feeling. But a humble spirit puts others first.
All around us are ads, people, groups, businesses and all other manner of communications telling us to put ourselves first and to basically forget about other people and what they want. You’re #1. You deserve the best. But a follower of Christ, a person after His own heart, will not be able to do this without feeling a strong urging to do the opposite. We’re called to put others first.
This can be taken to an extreme where the person seeking to put others before themselves actually neglects their own needs to their detriment. A balance has to be found though. We do have things we need and we shouldn’t forget to take care of ourselves. But by considering others more significant than ourselves, we’re just reorganizing our priorities a bit. We’re more courteous, doing things like helping out where we see a need, even when it might make us late. We’re willing to inconvenience ourselves for the sake of others. We give our time. This is humility and God honors it.